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PROJECT GOALS
ABOUT THE PROJECT
PROJECT IMPACT

Suicidal thoughts and behaviors (STB), defined as anything a person does intentionally that can cause injury to one’s self, including death (i.e., suicide attempt, suicide ideation, non-suicidal self-injury), is a significant public health issue. A growing number of STB prevention programs train adults and peers (termed “gatekeeper training”) to be more active bystanders– to try to help when they see someone who may be at risk for self-injury. Such programs have demonstrated positive changes in knowledge and attitudes about suicide, but have had less success in changing behaviors in real world settings and few focus on youth and young adults as bystanders.  A better understanding of the variables that promote successful STB prevention behaviors could inform more effective STB bystander actions.

Project Lift Up is a national longitudinal study of almost 5,000 youth and young adults across the United States. The project was designed to understand awareness of suicidal behavior among social networks, helping (“bystander”) behaviors, and personal impact overtime. Important contextual factors are also measured, including personal suicidal thoughts and behaviors, help-seeking, social and structural determinants of health, and personal strengths and resiliency. Survey data are supplemented with interviews with professionals in the fields of mental health and prevention, as well as with youth themselves about barriers that prevent and contexts that promote helping specific to suicidal thoughts and behaviors as well as recommendations related to prevention training.

Findings from Project Lift Up will identify ways to improve youth identification of and responses to persons at risk for suicidal thoughts and behaviors in ways that reduce personal risk for themselves and others. A better understanding of the impact of helping will enhance prevention efforts to teach and assess self-care and support for bystanders themselves.

 

LIFT LINES

Everybody needs a lift sometimes. some words of wisdom from peers to help lift you up.

The greatest glory in living lies not in the failing, but in the rising time when we fall.     /     
To be loved is to be known: to be understood is to be witnessed.     /     
Bloom where you are planted.     /     
Meh, I’ll make it. I always do.     /     
Treat every day like it’s the good old days.     /     
I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship.     /     
I’ve tried so hard to do right.     /     
Everyone can master a grief but he that has it.     /     
You are not your mistakes. They are what you did. Not who you are.     /     
If speaking kindly to plants can help them grow, imagine what speaking kindly to humans can do.     /     
In response to “You’re pointless simply say “Thirty-nine buried. Zero found.     /     
Love yourself the way you love others.     /     
It’s okay to prioritize yourself.     /     
It is okay if all you do today is survive.     /     
If every porkchop were perfect, we wouldn’t have hot dogs.     /     
More love. Less hate.     /     
Be comforted deal soul! There is always light behind the clouds!      /     
Happiness is not by chance, but by choice.     /     
If you do what you love, you’ll never work a day in your life.      /     
Be what you want others to be.     /     
The poetry of earth is never dead.     /     
All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.     /     
Wait and hope.     /     
Wake up every day with the thought that something amazing is about to happen.     /     
As long as you are breathing, you’ll grow. Everything heals, you just need time and hope.     /     
Be gentle with yourself. You have the power to protect your peace.     /     
Celebrate every win no matter how small.     /     
Crying does not indicate that you are weak. Since birth, it has been a sign that you are alive.     /     
Aim for the moon and if you miss, land among the stars.     /     
With every act of self-care your authentic self gets stronger, and the critical, fearful mind gets weaker. Every act of self-care is a powerful declaration: I am on my side, I am on my side.     /     
Do it and do it horribly; it means just go for it and show up, life’s about showing up not perfect.     /     
No matter how we choose to live, we both die at the end.     /     
Trust your intuition. If something feels right to you, it probably is right for you. Put yourself first.     /     
Your direction is more important than your speed.     /     
Let it happen.      /     
     /     The hard times are golden because they all lead to better days.
     /     Be patient with yourself. Healing takes time.
     /     Friends come and go but the ones that stay are family.
     /     You must take care of yourself to be able to care of others.
     /     Wake up everyday with that thought that something amazing is about to happen.
     /     It’s a marathon, not a race.
     /     Always remember that you are unique. Just like everyone else.
     /     Just keep moving forward. Always.
     /     Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today.
     /     The true way to be happy is to do something to add to the happiness of others.
     /     We cannot control the world around us. We can only control our responses to it.
     /     Wherever you go, go with all your heart.
     /     It’s always darkest before the dawn or “Only in darkness can you see the stars.
     /     Keep your face towards the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you.
     /     And this too shall pass.
     /     Happiness often sneaks through the door you didn’t know you left open.
     /     Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.
     /     You have writers who write about crazy characters but that doesn’t mean the writer himself is crazy.
     /     I know love exists because I exist, and I am full of it.
     /     What a poor reason for refusing light, because the night is so dark.
     /     Success is the ability to leave failure behind without losing enthusiasm.
     /     Self-Care: refers to the practices that promote physical, mental, and emotional well-being, and enhance overall quality of life.
     /     Keep hold of the small wins, the small joys, and use those as the steps to keep you going … “Collecting small things kept me going. Gotta stay to finish my collection. But in the process of making one collection, I found a new one and it kept going from there. It’s not a permanent fix, but it can at least help you until you are able to get help.
     /     People lie and say what you want to hear, but nature won’t. Nature is life in its purest form.
     /     God help those who help themselves.
     /     It’s natural to cry don’t let people make you feel otherwise.
     /     There are too many flowers to smell and songs to listen to for me to stop going.
     /     Don’t use your energy to worry. Use your energy to create, grow, and heal.
     /     Remember this: be kind to your mind. Kindness is beautiful. You got this.
     /     Hold fast. Brave the storm.
     /     The idea is not to live forever, but to create something that will.
     /     Birthdays tell how long you’ve been on the road, not how far you’ve traveled.
     /     Growth begins when we start to accept our own weakness.
     /     Good things take time.
     /     I understand you; I care about you.
Sometimes you have to cut a little bit of yourself off, no matter how much it hurts, in order to grow.     /     
At the end of the day it’s still you.     /     
If life doesn’t go right, go left. There’s always another path.     /     
Remember, some things have to end for better things to begin.     /     
You are loved.     /     
Take the time it takes to take less time.     /     
You are worthy of all the things you want, even the things that feel out of reach.     /     
It’s all about perspective.     /     
Balance is a process, not a definition.     /     
Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today.     /     
Be where your feet are.     /     
You don’t need a grand reason to live. The small things usually outweigh the big.     /     
You are loved unconditionally and with an unchanging love.     /     
Even on the darkest days the sun will shine again.     /     
Always look for the helpers, you will always find people who are helping.     /     
Work on yourself. For you yourself.     /     
Treat every day like it’s the good old days, because you’re living them right now.     /     
We cannot control the world around us. We can only control our response to it.     /     
Do not wait for the perfect conditions to start.     /     
Try to be a rainbow is someone else’s cloud.     /     
Stay close to anything around you that makes you glad you are alive.     /     
Celebrate every win, no matter how small.     /     
The sleeper must awaken.     /     
You have the courage to begin again.     /     
A problem is a chance for you to do your best.     /     
When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.     /     
There will be no end if you keep asking others’ approval. Be true to yourself and you will be free.     /     
Hating people is like burning your own home to get rid of a rat.     /     
I am patient. I am resilient. I am worthy. Today, I let go of things I cannot change.     /     
We do it because we believe we have something to offer.      /     
A bad morning does not mean a bad day.     /     
Better to be a lion for a day then a sheep all your life.     /     
Do things at your own pace. Life is not a race.     /     
Don’t tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon.     /     

OUR LIFT OFF CREW

Meet the professionals behind the Project.

Kim Mitchell Ph.D
Principal Investigator, Research Professor, Crimes against Children Research Center, University of New Hampshire (UNH)
I am an Irish dance mom — my other full time job!
Vicki Banyard Ph.D
Principal Investigator and Distinguished Professor School of Social Work, and Core Faculty for Center of Reseearch on Ending Violence at Rutgers University
I love going camping.
Michelle Ybarra MPH, PH.D
Co-Investigator , President and Reasearch Director at Center for Innovative Public Health Research (CiPHR)
I enjoy doing a silly kind of Pilates called Lagree.
Shira Dunsiger Ph.D
Co-Investigator, Assoicate Professor (Research) at Center for Health Promotion and Health Equity, Department of Behavioral and Social Sciences at Brown Universtiy, School of Public Health
My first job was making balloon animals at children's birthday parties!
Lisa Jones Ph.D
Co-Investigator, Research Associate Professor, Crimes against Children Research Center, University of New Hampshire (UNH)
I love baking bread in my spare time.
Julie Cerel Ph.D
Co-Investigator, Professor and Director of the Suicide Prevention and Exposure Lab at the University of Kentucky College of Social Work
I take a picture of the sunset most days.
Linda Oshin Ph.D
Consultant, Assistant Professor, Clinical Psychology Department Rutgers University
I love baking and will gladly shirk my research responsibilities to bake someone a cake!
Deirdre Colburn Ph.D
Postdoctoral Reasearch Associate, Crimes against Children Research Center, University of New Hampshire (UNH)
I love to travel and have visited 10 different countries over the past 3 years!
Haylee Foster BA.
Research Associate, Crimes against Children Research Center, University of New Hampshire (UNH)
My rescue Pit Bull is my whole world.
Elton Ortiz MS.
Research Associate at the Center for Innovative Public Health Research (CiPHR)
Playing soccer and taking naps are my hobbies outside of work.
Gabriela Crinigan
Research Associate, Crimes against Children Research Center, University of New Hampshire (UNH)
I am an artist and my inspiration comes largely from memories of my upbringing in Venezuela.
Tori Schofield MS.
Research Assistant, Crimes against Children Research Center, University of New Hampshire (UNH)
I am a gym rat and love anything with peanut butter.
Maggie Crean MA.
Research Assistant, Crimes against Children Research Center, University of New Hampshire (UNH)
I am a die-hard Red Sox fan!
Lovisa Werner
Biostatistician, Brown University School of Public Health
I competed in ballroom dance growing up!

OUR PARTNERS

Project lift up is brought to you in collaboration with the following

University of New Hampshire Brown University Rutgers University University of Kentucky CiPHR
 
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